Images

Hi friends

Today I want to write about the images we hold of others in our heads and how they are the cause of the dynamics in our relationships..

A few years a go I went on a date which seemed to be going well until we reached the end of the meal and my date ordered the bill- The bill arrived and my date started to feel himself up in a frenzy claiming that he had left his wallet at home.. in those days I knew nothing about Images and what not, and immediately caught myself conjuring up an image of him to be a "miser'... 

Of course I paid, and vowed never to see him again- I even bounced off his phone calls that followed - sticking to MY story about him. 

I was certainly not going to associate myself with a con man, right!!??

A few months later, I was walking along the beach with some friends and another friend of mine walks towards us engage with a handsome man . 

As they got closer I recognized "the con- man" and as I'm am realizing that it's HIM - my friend gives me a big hug and shows me the most exquisite ring on her finger saying "see what my boyfriend got for me", as she introduces him ... 

"Since I already KNOW who he really is", I say to myself..."He probably found it somewhere- there is no way he paid for that"- 

I looked him straight in the eye very condescendingly so to make sure that he KNEW that I KNEW, when he put his hand in his pocket, took out his wallet and placed a 100 dollar bill in my hand,

saying that he had called me several times after our date to apologize and offer to take me out again and pay me back - but I wouldn't take his calls..

Well that Handsome guy is now married to my friend -they live in a huge beautiful house with three gorgeous children and he seems to be the most generous person I know...

If you want to know how to release the images and live Here and now in what IS with out the story...come to get a taste of the BE AND IT WILL BE method..

We do not fix what is not broken

Dear Friends, 

We live within ourselves in a mode that thinks that nothing is right and that everything needs fixing. 

We bring this mode into the lives of others- planting seeds in their minds that our story is the correct one-

Parents do this with children- Parents rush to the Psychologists to explain to the kids what they think is happening before they even realize themselves what is happening.

Well Folks Children DO NOT understand situations the way we do - they are innocent!!! 

We plant OUR understanding of things in their minds as problems and with that they grow up...

When a child of 3 or 4 plays with his/her sexual organs or touches another child in that curious way - this is not sexual harassment - this is a very normal path of the child's discovery - But when parents interfere they make it to be a problem instead of just accepting what is. as the child's path of self discovery.. Don't fix what is not broken
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When a parent thinks he/she has to prepare the child for a new relationship with the ex husband or wife's new boyfriend or girl friend she or he are projecting their own "problem" with the situation on the "innocent ' child who enters the new relationship thinking that there is a problem - Do not fix what is not broken...

In every story that we tell ourselves there is another that is not being told.

In the case of the husband's new relationship , the good story is not being told simply because the Parent's mind won't allow this possibility as it bases his/her story on the hurt of that he/she experiences.
But if we knew that we could cleanse our own hurt and be clear to the see truth of what is happening we may be able to tell another story such as telling the child that she now has two homes and an extra person to love him or her- Do not fix what is not broken..


You see until something happens it hasn't happened but if we tell the story and plant the seed in another's mind we will be accomplices to their negative experience of a situation that may in fact prove to be a positive one- 

Don't fix what is Not broken - Fix Your thinking and clean you hurt....


BE AND IT WILL BE

DNA in the Spiritual Realm


Hi friends,

We have important news about the DNA - Yes there is still a great deal that is unknown to you that still needs discovery .. and yes you are on your way ..

But here we actually would like to inform you about the important relationship that you have with YOUR selves that is a direct influence on what science has termed the DNA - That code which  is the core of YOUR BEING as it were…

As you already know you consist of MIND BODY AND SOUL- These three states are all intertwined while you live in the Earthly dimension, and must be taken as whole when discussing the DNA and the way you wish to experience your LIFE..

One of the mistakes that you make is to separate these three states - you treat the body separately from the rest of the states. In this article we are going to pay great attention to YOUR state of BEING and this includes all three states…

When there is synchronicity between the three which we will call 3SOB (THREE STATES OF BEING) you will BE directly in synch with the The Universe.

What does this mean ? How did the Universe enter the discussion?

Well this is exactly what is missing- You are part and parcel of the Universe just as everything else and there is a natural process to the Universe which includes everything in it in the first place.

What came first? Well the whole came together and You are part of the whole - There really is no beginning or end - ALL IS HERE AT ALL TIMES - say that again… ‘ALL IS HERE AT ALL TIMES’

If You are able to get this concept it will be easier to understand that You are able to tune into what IS at all times, You will be able to heal Yourselves… You will be able to magically invite the world You wish to EXPERIENCE!!!!
 
Yes and this is the Key word- EXPERIENCE- what does that mean? Well what do You EXPERIENCE in Your lives?


FEELINGS!!!!
YES!! That is all You want … to EXPERIENCE A FEELING….

So if everything already IS, then it goes to say that ALL You want to FEEL already exists within You … RIGHT?

So here it is the Paradox of it all… All that is left is to FEEL in the 3SOB what You want to FEEL right now and the universe will meet Your vibration which is the FEELING… AND SO IT WILL BE.

And you may now say … easier said than done- what happens if there already is a feeling that we are feeling now and it's not pleasant…
 

good question: Well first check what is it that You are experiencing Then FEEL IT(BODY)- give it your Presence (SOUL) until it dissolves and then CHOSE (MIND)what to FEEL AND BE synchronized in the three states (3SOB) at the same time HERE AND NOW

BE AND IT WILL BE

Is a process of internal cleansing that promised you Serenity and consciousness in your world...

Why do we suffer?

Hi friends ,

Why do we suffer? This is a question that we ask ourselves almost every day of our lives...

There actually is a very simple answer.. I will give it to you now and we may be done with this blog...

And here it is....

WE SUFFER BECAUSE WE ARE IN ARGUMENT WITH WHAT IS HAPPENING!!

Simple right? Now your mind will ask the next question....

Ok but How can we stop the argument?

And here is another simple answer...

WE SIMPLY ACCEPT WHAT IS!!

Not done yet? The mind will now ask ....

Ok but how can I accept everything? Sometime Life can be really tough...

SO here is the long answer..

LIFE is our experience of IT- NOTHING ELSE!!

LIFE IS LIFE- how you chose to go through it is up to how you wish to FEEL. Yes , YOU can chose how to FEEL.. I don't know about you - but I want SERENITY at all times, whatever Life presents me ... and this means that in order to achieve SERENITY I must accept what IS... HERE in the acceptance of  NOW I will awake to consciousness and all answers will appear. HERE in the place of NOW I will BE in total presence.. and in total PRESENCE the experience of LIFE is kind.....

Your mind may now wish to continue asking more questions,  please feel free to do so and I  will continue to  show you the next step to .. SERENITY....

"כאן ועכשיו"

שלום חברים-

אתם קוראים בפוסטים שלי על חשיבות ההוויה של "כאן ועכשיו"- ועל איך שרוב הזמן אנחנו חיים בMIND.

וכפי שאנו כבר יודעים שכשאנחנו לא נוכחים "כאן ועכשיו" הMIND מביא לנו מחשבות אסוציאטיבים ואוטומטיות שבדרך כלל הם שליליים-

ובכל זאת אתם בטח אומרים ש הMIND הוא גם מכשיר יעיל שעוזר לנו לפתח ומביא רעיונות - ולכן אני מבקשת לעשות כאן סדר

נכון! הMIND  אכן מכשיר מדהים ורק להתפעל ממנו- הוא באמת עוזר בפיתוח אבל הוא לא מביא רעיונות-

הרעיון מגיע ממרחב אחר של אותו רגע ב"כאן ועכשיו" ואם נוסיף מיד מצב הווייתי ונשאר ב"כאן ועכשיו" נוכל להורות ל MIND לעזור לנו...

וזה חשוב להפנים: "ההוויה" שלנו היא הדבר הכי חשובה והכי בסיסית בכדי לחוות חיים  מתוך שמחה, אהבה, פוריות, עשיה, וכל דבר שנרצה עבורנו שישפיע לטובה על סבבתינו...

וכאן בא לידי ביטוי איך נוכל לישים את כל מה שאנו רוצים עבורנו וסבבתינו

אז ככה: אנחנו "נפש חיה"- ול"חיה" שפה משלו שאוגר בתוכו זיכרונות של גלגולים קודמים-

בעיקר יש לו זכרון של הישרדות- והזיכרון הזה מופעל כל פעם שהגוף מזהה סטרסס ופחד שמגיעים מחוסר נוכחות של "כאן ועכשיו"- ובעקבות הזיהוי הזה הוא מנתהל בצורה שהוא "חושב" שיגן עלינו -

כמו למשל כאלה שעושים דיאטה כל חייהם ולא מצליחים לשמור לאורך זמן מפני שהגוף זוכר את ה"רעב" ומיד נכנס להגנה ומעלה שומנים בכדי "לשמור" עלינו-

הסיבה לכך היא כי מאז העולם המודרני אנחנו חשופים למאכלים שעשויים על ידי אדם ואוכלים פחות מהתזונה הטבעית שהיקום הביא עמו-

כך גם הגוף נוהג כשלא מתייחסים אליו "כאן ועכשיו"- הרי הגוף כן נמצא "כאן ועכשיו" וכשאנחנו חיים בMIND אנחנו לא יחד עם הגוף - והגוף מגיב בהתאם-

 הוא צורך סיגריה - אוכל- סמים- אלכוהול-תרופות- וכל דבר שיזכיר לנו שהוא קיים-

המסר כאן הוא להבין שלגוף שפה משלו ובכדי לעזור לו להיפרד מה"זכרון ההישרדות" אנחנו חווים את ה"כאן ועכשיו" ומכאן מזמינים את הMIND לתמוך במחשבות ודרך דמיון מודרך בכדי לעזור לנו "להיות" במצב הוויה חדש..

לנשום ולהרגיש איך זה מרגיש להיות בשלווה ושקט-לוותר על הרצון לשלוט -לקבל את כל היש בדיוק כפי שהוא-

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We are All Survivors-Let Us Be The Dancers

Hello Friends.

Today I would like to give you some insight in your inner BEING...

Each and everyone of us has the Survivor mode in us.

We have all gone through life times of experiences, some happy - some sad and some tragic.

We have all had good and bad things happen to us

We have all done good things and we have also done bad things.

In these special times where are NOW experiencing our lives - we have come here to correct all the negatives in our inner BEING..

We are all good to begin with but have accumulated negative karmas and we relive them with in our Core BEING..

Every situation and person that we engage in and with, we bring with us, our NEGATIVE CORE BEING (NCB), our SURVIVOR within.

There is hardly ever a clean space where we simply experience the FUN or warm feeling that LIFE itself brings us.

There is always a Survivor Prism through which we see the engagement we are experiencing. 

Let's us take a look at all your relationships and see if there are any that are free to just BE AND ENJOY or is there always something that YOU "FEEL" that you need to get from that person or situation...
Something that you believe that if you get this something you will FEEL safe

.....  And when you do not get that FEELING you go to the next situation to try again to FEEL safe.

When was the last time that you REALLY and TRULY had FUN in the moment without BEING the Survivor?

So how can we depart from the the NCB of the Survivor and become the Dancer?

We first have be brave enough to look ourselves in the eye and see how we base all our relationships through the Survivor Prism.

Who are we BEING when we are in a meeting with the person in front of us?

What is it that we are expecting to gain through this person?

What happens when that person does not deliver my expectation?

Well the way to part from the Survivor is actually paradoxical  in it's solution...

BEING the Survivor places us in a field of energy that separates us from the real world and Life itself... Like being in a closed cupboard with only eye holes to see through but only able watch through the FEELING of the Survivor....


The solution is simple...

We deliberately allow ourselves to FEEL the FEELING of BEING unsafe... The feeling of the Survivor.. We allow ourselves to FEEL the pain of LOSS and HURT - we open our mouths and breathe OUT the feeling through our Lungs and out with whatever sound accompanies the FEELING..

You see everything in this dimension that keeps our attention ONLY wants to be noticed... And once you have given it your full attention and ALLOWED the FEELING to express itself- it  will dissipate and leave.

The FEELING does not need a story as there are many stories which can trigger the FEELING.

The FEELING is a whole entity of it's own and every time You do not allow it to BE NOTICED it will come up again.

After this "letting go" we can be free to go onto the next step ... which is to get out of OUR selves...

To get out of our SELVES means that instead of seeing OUR NEEDS we allow ourselves to BE present in the moment with the person in front of us and accept that person for BEING exactly who he/she is, while letting go of all expectations.

BEING PRESENT HERE AND NOW and having total fun in the moment.

Very often the very thing that we so wanted will appear soon as a result of having let go of this Survivor energy...

The actual acknowledgement of the Survivor Prism brings it to the surface and this awareness becomes part of our consciousness and so when we next meet our up and coming situation we will be totally aware of the NCB through how we feel about ourselves. This in itself makes for change...


Understand this, no change for the better can happen in OUR world if we are not prepared to say goodbye to the Survivor..

When we are in this mode we automatically bring everyone around us to the same energy field..

When You are worried everyone is worried about YOU and so they too experience the wavelength of WORRY.

When you are HERE AND NOW , Happy in your CORE BEING this will be the wavelength that will allow others to embark on.

So it becomes imperative to understand every single person on earth's responsibility to depart from the NCB in order to BE a direct influence to our Universe....

BEING HAPPY HERE AND NOW of ONE person CORE BEING will have the ripple effect on thousands...

Lets BE HAPPY and DANCE OUR LIVES so that all will join in..

With love

Ronny

איפה אנחנו חיים? חוויה היא ידע

שלום חברים

היום אני רוצה להזמין אותכם לעשות הבחנה בין מה שאתם חושבים שאתם יודעים לבין מה שאתם באמת יודעים..

יש בכל אחד מאיתנו שתי ישויות- אחד שקיים על אוטומט ואחד שמתבונן וחווה

האוטומט חיי בתוך מה שאני קוראת ה"מכונה, שזה המוח שלנו שעובד נון-סטופ גם אם אני ערה לו וגם אם לא..הוא קושר ידיעה לידיעה מתוך מאגר ידע שיש לו, מבוסס על עבר-ובכך הוא בטוח שהוא יודע גם את העתיד

ה"ישות" גם חושב שהוא יכול לדעת משהו שמבוסס על משהו שהוא יודע- בעצם זה מרחב המחיה האוטומטית שאנחנו חווים שניה שניה-

אז מה קורה כשאנו רוצים ליצור משהו חדש?

כאן אנחנו צריכים לצאת מהאוטומט בכדי ליצור מרחב הווייתי חדש ואת זה אפשר לעשות רק כשאנו מתחברים ל"ישות" השניה שלנו שחי "כאן ועכשיו" ומוכן להתבונן בחבר שלו המוח מבלי לתת לו כוח

רק מהמרחב של "כאן ועכשיו" יש לנו אפשרות לגלות ולחוות את החדש.

ההבדל הוא מאד פשוט - ה"ישות" של "כאן ועכשיו" יכול להתקיים רק מתוך החוויה- ורק החוויה עצמה היא ידע- בלי החוויה הכל נמצא בגדר אינפורמציה...

המוח שלנו לא באמת יודע להבדיל בין מה שבאמת קרה לבין מה שלא, ויכול לחוות מתוך מה שהוא מאמין שנכון ולכן אנחנו מוצאים את עצמינו הרבה פעמים תקועים ולא מצליחים באמת לעשות שינוי שאנו מייחלים לו

הנה 3  צעדים שמאפשרים לנו להיות כאן ועכשיו

מזהים את התקיעות? דבר ראשון תנשמו עמוק ותתבוננו בעצמכם נושמים- אפשר לנשום רק

"כאן ועכשיו"

מכאן תוכלו להתבונן בשיחה שמתנהלת לכם המוח במבלי להיות מעורבים בה

תסתכלו סביבכם ותראו מה נמצא בסביבה שלכם- תנו תשומת לב למה שאתם רואים- אם יש מישהו שמדבר איתכם -תקשיבו למה שנאמר בלי שיפוט- פשוט הקשבה

"כאן ועכשיו" תוכלו לפעול מתוך מקום הוויתי חדש- ובתוך הפעולה יש כוונה חדשה שמייצרת משהו חדש

כל דבר שאתם רוצים עבורכם מצריך מכם להיות הדבר שאתם רוצים "כאן ועכשיו"-

רוצים אהבה- תהיו אהבה

רוצים הקשבה- תקשיבו

רוצים שמחה- תהיו שמחים

רק "כאן ועכשיו"תוכלו להיות כל מה שאתם רוצים

הוויה נעימה

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