Dear Friends,
We live within ourselves in a mode that thinks that nothing is right and that everything needs fixing.
We bring this mode into the lives of others- planting seeds in their minds that our story is the correct one-
Parents do this with children- Parents rush to the Psychologists to explain to the kids what they think is happening before they even realize themselves what is happening.
Well Folks Children DO NOT understand situations the way we do - they are innocent!!!
We plant OUR understanding of things in their minds as problems and with that they grow up...
When a child of 3 or 4 plays with his/her sexual organs or touches another child in that curious way - this is not sexual harassment - this is a very normal path of the child's discovery - But when parents interfere they make it to be a problem instead of just accepting what is. as the child's path of self discovery.. Don't fix what is not broken
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When a parent thinks he/she has to prepare the child for a new relationship with the ex husband or wife's new boyfriend or girl friend she or he are projecting their own "problem" with the situation on the "innocent ' child who enters the new relationship thinking that there is a problem - Do not fix what is not broken...
In every story that we tell ourselves there is another that is not being told.
In the case of the husband's new relationship , the good story is not being told simply because the Parent's mind won't allow this possibility as it bases his/her story on the hurt of that he/she experiences.
But if we knew that we could cleanse our own hurt and be clear to the see truth of what is happening we may be able to tell another story such as telling the child that she now has two homes and an extra person to love him or her- Do not fix what is not broken..
You see until something happens it hasn't happened but if we tell the story and plant the seed in another's mind we will be accomplices to their negative experience of a situation that may in fact prove to be a positive one-
Don't fix what is Not broken - Fix Your thinking and clean you hurt....
BE AND IT WILL BE
We live within ourselves in a mode that thinks that nothing is right and that everything needs fixing.
We bring this mode into the lives of others- planting seeds in their minds that our story is the correct one-
Parents do this with children- Parents rush to the Psychologists to explain to the kids what they think is happening before they even realize themselves what is happening.
Well Folks Children DO NOT understand situations the way we do - they are innocent!!!
We plant OUR understanding of things in their minds as problems and with that they grow up...
When a child of 3 or 4 plays with his/her sexual organs or touches another child in that curious way - this is not sexual harassment - this is a very normal path of the child's discovery - But when parents interfere they make it to be a problem instead of just accepting what is. as the child's path of self discovery.. Don't fix what is not broken
.
When a parent thinks he/she has to prepare the child for a new relationship with the ex husband or wife's new boyfriend or girl friend she or he are projecting their own "problem" with the situation on the "innocent ' child who enters the new relationship thinking that there is a problem - Do not fix what is not broken...
In every story that we tell ourselves there is another that is not being told.
In the case of the husband's new relationship , the good story is not being told simply because the Parent's mind won't allow this possibility as it bases his/her story on the hurt of that he/she experiences.
But if we knew that we could cleanse our own hurt and be clear to the see truth of what is happening we may be able to tell another story such as telling the child that she now has two homes and an extra person to love him or her- Do not fix what is not broken..
You see until something happens it hasn't happened but if we tell the story and plant the seed in another's mind we will be accomplices to their negative experience of a situation that may in fact prove to be a positive one-
Don't fix what is Not broken - Fix Your thinking and clean you hurt....
BE AND IT WILL BE
