Hi friends
Today I want to write about the images we hold of others in our heads and how they are the cause of the dynamics in our relationships..
A few years a go I went on a date which seemed to be going well until we reached the end of the meal and my date ordered the bill- The bill arrived and my date started to feel himself up in a frenzy claiming that he had left his wallet at home.. in those days I knew nothing about Images and what not, and immediately caught myself conjuring up an image of him to be a "miser'...
Of course I paid, and vowed never to see him again- I even bounced off his phone calls that followed - sticking to MY story about him.
I was certainly not going to associate myself with a con man, right!!??
A few months later, I was walking along the beach with some friends and another friend of mine walks towards us engage with a handsome man .
As they got closer I recognized "the con- man" and as I'm am realizing that it's HIM - my friend gives me a big hug and shows me the most exquisite ring on her finger saying "see what my boyfriend got for me", as she introduces him ...
"Since I already KNOW who he really is", I say to myself..."He probably found it somewhere- there is no way he paid for that"-
I looked him straight in the eye very condescendingly so to make sure that he KNEW that I KNEW, when he put his hand in his pocket, took out his wallet and placed a 100 dollar bill in my hand,
saying that he had called me several times after our date to apologize and offer to take me out again and pay me back - but I wouldn't take his calls..
Well that Handsome guy is now married to my friend -they live in a huge beautiful house with three gorgeous children and he seems to be the most generous person I know...
If you want to know how to release the images and live Here and now in what IS with out the story...come to get a taste of the BE AND IT WILL BE method..
Today I want to write about the images we hold of others in our heads and how they are the cause of the dynamics in our relationships..
A few years a go I went on a date which seemed to be going well until we reached the end of the meal and my date ordered the bill- The bill arrived and my date started to feel himself up in a frenzy claiming that he had left his wallet at home.. in those days I knew nothing about Images and what not, and immediately caught myself conjuring up an image of him to be a "miser'...
Of course I paid, and vowed never to see him again- I even bounced off his phone calls that followed - sticking to MY story about him.
I was certainly not going to associate myself with a con man, right!!??
A few months later, I was walking along the beach with some friends and another friend of mine walks towards us engage with a handsome man .
As they got closer I recognized "the con- man" and as I'm am realizing that it's HIM - my friend gives me a big hug and shows me the most exquisite ring on her finger saying "see what my boyfriend got for me", as she introduces him ...
"Since I already KNOW who he really is", I say to myself..."He probably found it somewhere- there is no way he paid for that"-
I looked him straight in the eye very condescendingly so to make sure that he KNEW that I KNEW, when he put his hand in his pocket, took out his wallet and placed a 100 dollar bill in my hand,
Well that Handsome guy is now married to my friend -they live in a huge beautiful house with three gorgeous children and he seems to be the most generous person I know...
If you want to know how to release the images and live Here and now in what IS with out the story...come to get a taste of the BE AND IT WILL BE method..
